Stop talking about your ex, your kids, your money, etc. Some therapy, meditation, or a little alone time wouldn't be the worst thing in the world for you.The point is, hold back from dating until you're healed. GF #1: "Nothing is a bigger turn-on to a woman in her 50s than a man that makes her feel like she's the best thing that ever happened to him." GF #2: "Be honest with her and don't lead her on.You can be romantic and take the lead, but exercise patience.
TOO FURIOUS Ok, so you're livid at your ex, or fuming about the divorce, or bitter you're still on after all these years. We get your circumstances might suck, but don't let it consume you.Don't get too flirty too fast, don't text, and definitely don't sext.Even if you're fresh out of a miserable marriage and new to the singles scene, take a breath.Such May-December couplings are no longer seen as relationship outliers — or indicative of deep-seated mommy issues.New French President Emmanuel Macron, 39, has a wife, Brigitte, who is 24 years his senior, while supermodel Heidi Klum, 43, has been dating art dealer Vito Schnabel, 30, for more than three years.When it comes to women and dating, I say you can never know enough.