It’s not like I was questioning my sexual identity, but I was deeply interested in exploring its nuances.
Simple adjustments to my online dating profiles opened the gate for messages from couples—and a rush of options.
Outside of the sexual experience, how do you hope this makes you feel?
What type of physical experiences, specifically, are you looking to have?
She was also looking to expand her sexual boundaries.
And she understood these things about herself prior to entering any three-person scenarios.
Take a cue from Sarah, and ask yourself what you’re looking to get out of this experience.
But I quickly discovered that, like any type of dating, this arrangement can sometimes be complicated and confusing.
He was sweet and inquisitive, and she was funny and a little shy.
They each asked me questions, while he held her hand between their beers.
(Unless, of course, that’s the specific dynamic you want and even then, you have to make that clear too!
)Sure, it can be intimidating to share intimate information with people you’ve recently met.