You may find your “authority figure” at your new job likes Smirnoff Ice, American Apparel deep v’s and a good weekend in Vegas just like you do. Similar to family, co-workers endure much of the same stress, share many similar experiences and overall have a similar lifestyle.This inevitably forms a special bond that can feel like sexual or romantic attraction.Shutterstock Everyone knows he is a player/doesn’t respect women/thinks he is God’s gift to the earth etc. Shutterstock Your friends tell you it won’t last, that you have nothing in common, that a relationship can’t subsist on sex alone, but you can’t help it: the sex is so good, it makes up for the fact you have nothing to talk about leading up to it, or after it.
This period of courtship is sometimes seen as a precursor to engagement or marriage.Shutterstock A lawyer is almost like a therapist—out of necessity, you tell him every last detail of your life.You’ll instantly feel bonded to him for this reason, and, should he like the details of your life, he may develop feelings for you. Shutterstock If your friend dated a guy for a long time, you were inevitably around him often and the two of you got to know each other.Source: Shutterstock It could be as close as a stepsibling, or a cousin by marriage, or an awkwardly young step-uncle.But, sharing so many similar experiences as pseudo-family does, you can’t help but feel a special bond with a certain attractive non-blood relative at some point.Shutterstock You don’t have a dirty mind, or a weak constitution, or loose morals: you simply find the forbidden so tempting, just like the rest of us.