When my profile was still up I did message him while he was online and made a little joke about him being there one day and his response was that when people make the effort they at least deserve a polite ‘no thank you’…but that’s been a month ago.I haven’t said one word about it since but I am wondering how long to wait.We have a great time together and he calls every night to chat or say goodnight.I am really interested in him and I get the feeling that he feels the same way.
If you haven’t agreed to be exclusive, I feel this is the point that the relationship would need to reach before you would be in a position of strength to ask that the profile be removed.
As I discussed above, I would recommend against being aggressive or angry.
Still, these are areas you will need him to define.
Once you’ve decided to get a clearer idea of where your relationship stands, I recommend trying to start conversations as naturally as possible over a 2 to 4 week period.
Try not to force them but at the same time you will want to look for opportunities let him know that you need to know where you stand with him.