You also do not need to talk about her ex around her regardless of how close you are or aren't. If you have a close friend who is reeling from a break-up then you absolutely need to speak to her and talk to her about her feelings about you possibly dating her ex.If you have made a definite decision to date him then let her know that and reassure her that you will date him but will be low key about it You may also want to find out what went wrong.
Or are you constantly worrying that something is still going on between people who claim their past is behind them?
those that have committed offenses of the heart too heinous to be forgiven in this lifetime. I called him up while he was on tour in Europe with his band. You'll know when the time is right because both of you will feel ready for it.
I had been up all night crying after I received an email from him telling me how much he missed me and I knew that it was time to be honest and do one of the hardest, most dreaded things I would ever have to do. Let hearts heal and flames fizzle out before hopping on the friendship train. The Frisky: Why would choose to be rebound girlfriend? Set clear emotional boundaries: Feeling down, having issues, looking to get your emotional needs fulfilled? Keep the friendship simple and without too much emotional entanglement.
I had been trying to talk myself out of it for days, but I just couldn't. The Frisky: Five sure ways NOT to get over someone 2. Talk about the things you have in common, shared interests, the things that made you friends during your relationship. If you're pretending to be friends with him as you wait for him to fall in love with you again, then it's not truly a friendship. On that note, no need to discuss your burgeoning love life with your ex. No relationship analysis: If possible, avoid analyzing your relationship.
Keep it platonic: No sex, no kissing, no hand-holding, no flirting, no monkey business. The Frisky: Celebrities who've dated their bosses 4. Not because you're trying to spare any feelings, but rather out of respect and decorum. There may come a point when it's cool for the two of you to discuss it. Do that with your other friends, your therapist, or your journal. If there is some closure you still need and you want to discuss it, wait until you have some distance and perspective and can talk about it without getting too emotional. More than friendly feelings: If you or your ex starts to have more than friendly feelings toward the other, back off and evaluate.