One man who admits to being an introvert said that online dating allows him to connect and establish common ground before meeting.Anonymously he can weed out the wheat from the chaff.” Lisa Bahar, a marriage and family therapist, said, “Certain personality types attract other types of personalities.
“Regardless of weight, age, ethnicity or personality there is someone for everyone.
If you are not one of the beautiful people, I would stay away from the more popular mainstream sites where there is more competition and a hook up mentality. D., a therapist and author of Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting about the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage, said that looks do matter.
A smaller specialty site might serve you better, especially if you are looking for something serious. “Online dating is an advertising process – you have to attract enough people with your profile that you get some good choices.
Urban areas where people commute and live hours apart attract diversity and a wider online demographic.
Cities with military bases also do well with online daters.